Dear Beloveds!

Today (March 27th) we celebrate the Full Moon in Libra, and a lot of the focus will be on New paradigm relationships that are based on Divine Reunion (the archetype of Libra) and Divine balance. This also represents Divine Reunion from within, with our sacred Self ... so sacred (Divine) marriage! For us this ss a very special Full Moon, because it happens on the 27th, which is our personal sacred number and the number of our own Divine Reunion. We celebrate 11 months of being together, and although we are currently celebrating alone, it feels like a very special energy.

Because the archetype of Libra is all about balance within our relationships and the sacred marriage, this blog post is dedicated to transitioning in our relationships. There are many changes that are coming through us, always from within to without, and this new Aries energy is helping us to anchor them all. We are currently experiencing a very profound transition in our relationship as well, as we are faced with new challenges, which on the long run, will probably bring more authenticity and inner freedom through peace. Remember, the Soul always chooses through growth, so the Ascension energy always moves towards the highest growth potential and expansion.

Lately there were many letters coming in, mostly about separation within long term relationships, either considering to end a marriage that no longer resonates or meeting someone new while already in a marriage. One was also about a long term friendship, so things that are still grounded more in the old than the New are really shifting indeed. There has never been more clarity and understanding of the Self than now, and more is to come. Because of all these changes, these messages now also ended up in this Blog, so that we can share about this with everyone else as well, because we bet there are many going through this now ... we all are anyway ... each in our own unique way.

At this point in time, You might be asking yourself, what are relationships truly about? If not, You might have asked yourself this simple and yet profound question while You were going and growing through your own personal relationships. Let us say that the perception of what a relationship is supposed to represent is different for everyone, always coming from our own level of awareness. Because so many people are shifting in their awareness now, their whole relationship paradigm/perception is changing as well. Many are now asking themselves deep questions, such as: "Why AM I in my current relationship? Is there a special purpose of my relationship and what is it? Is there spiritual growth and expansion within my relationships? Which relationships bring me more growth and expansion, and which ones still hold me in the old/the past ... the outgrown? Why do I go into relationships anyway, and what is the purpose of this? How did my perception of relationships in general change as I have been shifting?"

If not until now, You will surely ask yourself this question at some point in your personal life. From this point on, we will only refer to intimate partnerships. In this example, we consider this question very important: "What does marriage mean for me, when I break through all of the beliefs? What do I feel about sacred marriage between the two, who are creating the third?" We fully understand and support all of those who are going through a huge transition in their lives, but we must all learn to trust that the changes we are willing to make are a consequence of our own choices and that we are responsible for ourselves and our own happiness and well being. When we start focusing on the most important relationship there is ... the one we have with ourselves (and our Self), all the other relationships in our life can shift as well, because now we become the central force and radiating source of Self Love.

We were healing (wholing) so much as well, and life has been quite a ride lately. We were sharing abour healing within a Divine Reunion, which is what is happening for so many of us now. Because we are becoming more and more authentic, we simply need to be aligned with our Divine integrity and see what is truly in alignment with it ... and then make all choices from this space instead of our ego/mind. If not, we will feel it deeply and there will be depression, because there will be suppression of our true Self. On another note, releasing can always bring a sense of sadness, because the Human emotions can never simply just go away. But in time, they shall truly transform, and we will be able to feel both at once, kind of like in a great parallel ... the Human and the Divine, the higher and the currently lived/experienced personal truth.

If You are one of those going through these immense changes, all You need to know is that You already got all that it takes. Trust that everything is going smoothly as You are transitioning, because it's exactly as You choose it to be, right? Just continue to trust. We know that this is not an easy thing, because lately we had to release a lot of our own fears around abandonment and separation as well. For example, if we parted ways, it would be quite challenging, because we have everything together, including everything from physical things/possessions and all of our web pages, money, etc. We totally know how this phase feels, because we were looking into this timeline (starring right into the abyss), and we felt it as strongly as if it were true. But when we asked ourselves, if we truly wish for this to take place in our current Now reality, the answer was always a big "NO". Simply because we know that we are both on an "enlightened" path, and we both continue to grow together. This does not mean that we are always on the same level, but we do continue to trigger and challenge one another. If we did not, and one would lag behind too intensely or deny the expansion from within, things would definitely be different. We must always choose in alignment with our Soul Essence and Divine integrity.

This sounds simple, while actually ... it is usually the toughest step to take for many individuals, especially because we have many fears in our base chakra, and as Humans we get used to things being "same old same old". We are so used to seeing just the physical nature of things, although on the other hand, so many of us are awakening and seeing beyond just the physical. Remember this! If You consider all the physical things that would take place and all that would transpire ... and see that the physical reality is not actually what is bothering You, that the reasons go deeper ... consider your partnership again. On the other hand, if You do the math and take everything into account, seeing yourself moving through all the physical challenges ... and You still wish to be with this person from a deep neutral space of your Presence ... then You also have your answer! But truly ... only your Heart knows, and it can know only in the Now moment. None of us can look too far ahead in the future, but we will always know our truth right here in the Now, because the Heart will feel it ... and the feeling never lies.

On another note, there are also many who are still experiencing the denying/running phase within their Divine Reunion. In this case, You should first consider asking yourself, if this person is the only possible partner for You? Who are You denying/running away from anyway? And do You truly feel this to be true from a space of Love (your Heart) or fear (the mind)? Every relationship is truly about us, so when there is a non neutral feeling within this phase, not all is yet resolved/released, and we need to let go and then let go some more ... until we are attachment/fear free. On the other hand, if your answer is "YES", then You can consider the following. Know that never does not always mean never ... it is just the state that is right Now. It is whatever You and another choose, always in the Now. We have learned this ourselves, and it was not always a pleasant experience. 

Because of what we have been going through ourselves, we fully understand everyone going through this, and we have a deep compassion for everyone. We have been in an intense healing circle (a spiral, actually), and it's different each time that we finish a cycle. The change is ... that the Love deepens and grows, although it can be very intense and even stressful at times. But this is why we came here and we knew that it wouldn't always be easy. It does not matter if we are single or in a partnership, because in Truth of Creation, we are always a Twin Flame Essence, for that is how we are all created. It's not always easy, and it can be bumpy, it can get very intense and emotional, etc. But in Truth, it just is what it is, and boy, what a ride that is!

When the other one is not choosing the same way as we are, we are not looking in the same direction in that moment, and again ... this might not mean forever. It is important that two partners who are balanced and whole within their Self, are looking in the same direction. But we cannot force anyone, and sometimes we can just sit, observe and continue to let go, watching others make their own free will choices through which they grow in their own way. But as we trust that all is as it should be, Love can always surprise us, because true Love will always remain ... as Love just is. Our own path will always lead us to where we need to be (whole) the most, and the same goes for others. We have learned that if someone wants to go in the direction that is not the same as of the other, that is a free choice and we need to respect this, for unconditional love comes in through acceptance and allowing what is. We do not love someone to have them for ourselves, meaning our selfish needs. We love them for who they are and their own growth, just as much as we love ourselves for our own. So as we continue to let go, we can only speak our truth and serve as an inspiration for the other one. Truth is what brings us growth, not pushing, striving and flowing up the stream. And Truth always shows itself eventually ... in Divine timing. Truth is also Grace, so do not give up and remain in your own state of Grace. How it is now, is exactly as it needs to be. And things continuously change as they evolve and move into a next state of Being.

We also understand that this might feel like shattered dreams for many, and like our path has turned a different way, in the direction which was not originally intended. But again, we need to continue to remind ourselves that our Divine Self knows better than our Human Self ... and we need to embrace and allow both truths to walk together, hand in hand! This shifts energy even faster ... more rapidly. Many things are not always how we have imagined them, but this is a great ... for this gives us another potential to explore our beliefs and offer further possibilities for expansion. Maybe something else will be revealed and come along our way this way. We all need to fully surrender ... that is all we know.

To conclude, relationships that are changing will either transition into the New or melt away, while substituted with something different. Things are transforming, and all is as it should be, always. There is no need for blame or claiming someone to be wrong, because everyone is choosing their own Soul path. We are free Beings, and true Love is freedom. So let us rather turn inwardly and ask ourselves this: "Why AM I in this relationship? Why do I choose to share my life experience with this person? Is there uplifting co-creation within this relationship or is there stagnation? Do I grow with this person or is there resistance? Do we both grow in this relationship? What is my perception of a healthy and balanced/mature spiritual relationship?"

This quickly brings focus from blame and fault to within. This is how we are truly coming into our Divine integrity. We can choose only for ourselves, we can never choose for another. So let us only take responsibility for our own Soul choices and make sure they are coming from our highest Divine integrity. If someone is no longer aligned with our authentic Self, we can only continue to live/radiate/be our truth and allow the relationship to unwind naturally ... which is either moving on to the next level with us or simply transpire. In Creation it is already naturally so ... only as Humans we tend to fight these natural laws/principles. All that no longer serves a purpose of the highest potential, simply transpires and makes room for something new.

And to finalize ... when we grow and expand, new things will always come our way through people and situations in our lives. These are always appropriate to where we are in awareness and therefore, our vibration. If we feel what our truth really is, we will have no difficulty in making the appropriate (which is neither good or bad) choice for ourselves, and our Self responsibility will be challenged. Only we know what our Heart truly feels and what is our truth. We just need to follow it, which takes courage and devotion to our highest potential. Every path is of the Divine, but we need to share our authentic space with someone who can mirror us perfectly, as Divine Beings we fully deserve this ... and it is already ours anyway, we just need to claim it! But be patient and take it easy on yourself ... go as slow or as fast as You feel is needed for You. Do not be afraid of making changes, and take them step by step, without any force or control. True change does not come from ego, it needs to come through an open Heart. And a Heart that is open to infinite change is a fully activated Heart

So let us ask for a smooth transition in Grace for everyone, without any pressure. We can only create this external pressure ourselves. This has nothing to do with Twin Flames only, this transition is happening in all relationships ... in all corners of the world!

Just follow your authentic Heart space!

Within Divine Love, Polona & Jani 

P.S. Many people are transitioning in their relationships right now, connecting with their sacred Self first, and this is how it is supposed to be. But just go with the flow of the Now and know that it's not always the relationship/the person You need to let go of, sometimes it's just your beliefs around it. And when we break free from these and neutrality is reached, things can be seen more clearly ... in a new Light!